No parent wants their child to have a disability of any kind, but it is important for them to realize that it is a possibility, and in the case that it seems likely, to seek help or guidance from a professional. In any given situation that a child has developed a bad habit or displayed negative behavioral of thought patterns, it is crucial to recognize them and realize that the child may have a disability or condition. No child wants to feel disabled or lesser to everyone else, so it is important to ensure that the child knows that if they have a condition that it is not their fault but is also not the end of the world with the vast array treatments and medicine available today.
If you have just
found out that your child has a learning disability and feel upset, you are not
alone. Many parents, when faced with this revelation, go through feelings of
anger, guilt, rage and grief. This does not make you a bad person. It is
important to understand that your feelings are normal so that you can move
forward and get your child the help he or she needs.
It’s Not Your Fault
The first thing you
need to understand is that your child’s disability is not your fault. It
doesn’t mean you are a bad parent or have done something wrong.
It can be overwhelming to raise a child
with Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). The disorder not only
affects the child, but family members as well. Side effects of living with a
child with ADHD can become problematic if not dealt with immediately. Here are some key points to be mindful of, so
you can ensure negative feelings don’t fester and worsen.
- Physical and mental exhaustion
- Frequent frustration and mood swings/emotional
- Anxiety and stress causing impatience and irritability
Hooray for the arrival of summer! With just a few more
weeks of school left, I’m sure everyone is excited for summer vacation to
finally begin. If you have children with ADHD, chances are they are already
itching to burst out the door to enjoy what the season has to offer. It is already
difficult for adults and children to hold back on the things they want, and it
is even more so for children with ADHD. Therefore, during the summer, it is
important for you, the parent, to make sure that you have a plan ready for your
child to prevent any mishaps that could turn summer fun into summer boos.